DBT Worksheets: Every DBT Skill Worksheet in One Place
An index of every DBT skills worksheet on the site — values, STOP, TIPP, wise mind, DEAR MAN, and more — grouped by the four DBT modules, with a short summary and link to each one.
A DBT worksheet is a structured exercise for practicing one specific Dialectical Behavior Therapy skill — a fill-in prompt, a step-by-step protocol, or a short reflection. This page indexes every DBT skill and worksheet page on the site, organized by the four DBT modules, so you can find the exact skill you are looking for instead of searching one at a time.
Key Takeaways
- DBT skills are organized into four modules: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.
- Each worksheet below is its own page with the full explanation, a worked example, and the worksheet itself — click through to use it.
- No PDF download is required for any worksheet on this site; each one is built to fill in directly on the page.
- For the theory that ties all four modules together, start with DBT Skills Explained.
If you are brand new to DBT, DBT Skills Explained walks through how the four modules fit together before you dive into individual worksheets.
Mindfulness Worksheets
Mindfulness is the foundation module — it teaches you to notice what is happening in the present moment without judgment, which makes every other DBT skill possible.
Wise Mind — The core mindfulness concept: the balance point between "emotion mind" (ruled by feelings) and "reasonable mind" (ruled by pure logic). This worksheet walks through the three states and exercises for accessing wise mind when you need it.
Turning the Mind — A skill for choosing acceptance over and over, especially when a situation cannot be changed. The worksheet breaks down how turning the mind differs from simply "deciding" to accept something once.
Mindfulness of Current Thoughts — A practice for observing your own thinking as it happens, rather than getting pulled into believing every thought automatically.
The Non-Judgmental Stance — How to describe a situation in facts instead of judgments, and why this one shift reduces emotional intensity on its own.
Distress Tolerance Worksheets
Distress tolerance skills are for surviving a crisis without making it worse — they do not solve the underlying problem, but they get you through the moment safely.
TIPP — Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive muscle relaxation: four ways to bring down overwhelming emotional intensity fast, with the physiology behind why each one works.
STOP — Stop, Take a step back, Observe, Proceed mindfully: a protocol for interrupting an impulsive reaction before you act on it.
Radical Acceptance — A worksheet for practicing acceptance of painful reality as it is, which is different from approving of it — the goal is to stop fighting facts you cannot change.
The Pros and Cons Skill — A four-quadrant worksheet (pros and cons of acting on a crisis urge, pros and cons of resisting it) for making a clear-headed decision in the middle of distress.
The Four Options of DBT — When a problem will not resolve on its own, this worksheet walks through the four ways to respond: solve it, change how you feel about it, accept it, or stay miserable — and why naming the fourth option honestly helps you choose one of the first three.
Emotion Regulation Worksheets
Emotion regulation skills reduce how often you are swept into overwhelming emotions in the first place, rather than just managing a crisis once it starts.
The DBT Emotion Model — Breaks an emotional reaction into six components (prompting event, interpretation, body changes, action urge, action, after-effects) so you can see where to intervene.
Opposite Action — When an emotion does not fit the facts of a situation, this worksheet guides you through deliberately acting the opposite of the emotional urge — approaching instead of avoiding, for example.
Cope Ahead — A five-step worksheet for mentally rehearsing a difficult situation you can see coming, so you walk in with a plan instead of reacting in the moment.
Build Mastery — A worksheet for scheduling activities that build a genuine sense of competence, which lowers your emotional vulnerability over time.
DBT Values and the DBT Values Worksheet — The values page explains the philosophical principles DBT itself runs on; the worksheet is a step-by-step exercise for clarifying your own personal values and turning them into concrete actions.
Interpersonal Effectiveness Worksheets
Interpersonal effectiveness skills help you ask for what you need, say no, and maintain relationships and self-respect at the same time.
DEAR MAN, GIVE, and FAST — The three linked worksheets for making a request (DEAR MAN), keeping the relationship intact while you do it (GIVE), and staying true to your own self-respect (FAST).
The 6 Levels of Validation — Not a request worksheet but a reference tool: six levels of validating someone else (or yourself), from simply paying attention up to radical genuineness.
How to Use These Worksheets
Pick one worksheet at a time rather than trying to learn all of DBT at once. If you are working with a therapist, bring the worksheet you are practicing to session — DBT skills groups typically cycle through all four modules over about 24 weeks, so you will likely see most of these in order. If you are using DBT skills on your own, our DBT self-help guide covers which skills are safe to practice independently and when to involve a professional.
Frequently Asked Questions
DBT worksheets are structured exercises for practicing one specific Dialectical Behavior Therapy skill, such as the STOP skill for pausing before you react or the values worksheet for clarifying what matters to you. Each one is typically a short protocol, a fill-in prompt, or a step-by-step reflection tied to one of the four DBT modules.
Mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Mindfulness is the foundation that runs through the other three: distress tolerance helps you survive a crisis, emotion regulation reduces how often crises happen, and interpersonal effectiveness helps you get your needs met in relationships.
You do not need one. Each worksheet linked on this page is laid out on its own page so you can work through it directly, with a worked example and step-by-step instructions. Copy the prompts into a notebook or notes app if you want a reusable template.
If you are new to DBT, start with wise mind, since it underlies every other skill. If you are in an active crisis, TIPP and STOP are built for exactly that moment. If you want a slower, between-crisis skill, the values worksheet or opposite action are good starting points.
No, many people use individual DBT worksheets as self-help tools, and standalone DBT skills groups are increasingly available without full comprehensive DBT. That said, if you are managing intense emotional dysregulation, self-harm, or chronic suicidality, working through these skills with a trained DBT therapist as part of comprehensive DBT is strongly recommended.
The skill is the concept or protocol itself — for example, opposite action as an idea. The worksheet is the structured page that walks you through practicing it, usually with step-by-step prompts and a worked example, so you can apply the skill to your own situation rather than just reading about it.
No. DBT worksheets focus on skills like distress tolerance, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness, while CBT worksheets focus on identifying and challenging distorted thoughts and scheduling behavior change. See our CBT worksheets hub for the CBT-specific templates.
Where to Go Next
- Start with DBT Skills Explained for how the four modules fit together
- New to practicing on your own? Read the DBT self-help guide
- See the full DBT skills group curriculum for how these worksheets are taught in order
- Comparing modalities? Read DBT vs. CBT or explore Dialectical Behavior Therapy as a whole
Want Help Putting These Skills Into Practice?
A DBT-trained therapist can tailor these worksheets to your specific situation and help you build the full skill set over time.
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